Why OKCupid? Because it lets you answer multiple-choice questions that show up in your profile (if you opt to make your answers public). Some of the most common questions are about this kind of thing.Either way, outline your dating views early on. I would simply tell your dates: 'Im quite old-fashioned and like to know a person properly before becoming intimate. If you do meet another life partner, I have just one piece of advice: keep the engagement short.Posted by Diagonalize at 12:05 PM on August 12, 2010 As someone who waited a long time to have PIV sex, I am going to disagree and say that, depending on your restrictions, I don't think it's something that needs to be disclosed on the.Dec 17, 2012. A reader writes in asking if dating without sex is possible, and the response covers religion, romance, evolution, psychology, and more.Posted by nadawi at 12:01 PM on August 12, 2010 2 favorites No sex before marriage really isn't as unusual as you might think, but where you're looking for dates is going to have a big impact on your success rate.Online dating, especially OKCupid. Say it right in your profile. You've already written it on Metafilter; you can write the same thing (just more concisely and casually) on a dating site. Handle it the same way you would if you were a vegetarian and only.I'd rather not hear why I should change my views, as I'm bombarded with that message on a daily basis already. Please answer the question and try to respect my choices. Thanks. posted by anonymous to Human Relations (49 answers total) 10 users marked this.Her relationships seemed to only last a couple months, but i found out that she got married and had a kid since we stopped hanging out. i say all that to say it is totally possible to do what you're wanting to do.It s OK to date and be romantically interested in members of the opposite sex. All of the pressure of waiting till marriage, without the self-focus that will help get you to. but I won t make out and hold hands until I think there s a possible future.