Heres what 8-ball has to say about this. Is there a chance it can work? From my extensive focus groups on this topic (eavesdropping on people at Starbucks on Sunday mornings Id say outlook not so good, better ask again later.If he likes you and your chemistry holds him, then the relationship will continue. Im not trying to minimize the sex, but that isnt enough to tip the scale of his interest one way or another.It's probably because I am older now, but I've taken too many risks in the past, and I now realize people need to earn the privilege of having sex with me." 10. " I think it gives you very little pleasure compared to having sex.The straight mans perspective: Chris Kennedy. Theres a chance your quickie relationship can work, but theres more of a chance it wont. I dont think you blew itif he wants more, hell be back. How can we know his sincerity?"The first date is not enough time to talk about any past sexual history that may have resulted in diseases, diseases that I might be able to catch." "I would never have sex on a first date with someone.If we had done it earlier, I would have saved myself some time and energy." 13. " I think in 2015, if you're on a date and there's chemistry and you're both consenting adults, have at it." "I'm 22 now and engaged to be married.