How to get a second date after

4. Be yourself. In your efforts to make a strong first impression, you might have found yourself launching into a performance on your first date and expending a lot of energy trying to be on.
Now here is the CRITICAL part. You must resist the urge to open up to her about your weaknesses on the second date. This sort of thing comes much, much later in a relationship, when it helps increase intimacy.
If he winds up being a part of them, great, but if not, youve still got a lot going on. The goal of surviving the second date slump isnt to secure a third date no matter what; its to get you past sabotaging patterns that.
 These stories are chance to subtly brag about yourself and let your date know what a relationship with you might be like so you want to paint as attractive a picture as possible. (Obviously, if you dont have stories to tell well, really, you need.
Youre checking how you feel about one another when you meet in the flesh not to mention doing basic due diligence, trying to make sure that one or the other isnt a psycho axe-murdering cannibal. Even so: a coffee date can be made more than just.