Istanbul. Not all of these traits or experiences are only a result of Turkish-ness. Some of the stories that I have heard have been due to women beginning the flirtation themselves, and some men have a view of all Western women as being the same.Some of the rules include showering after intercourse, no sex during menstruation, and that a man must have sex with his wife at least once every four months (this is considered to be a wifes conjugal right).All this results in outrageous public displays of affection in places such as Starbucks, which are seen as Western and liberal, and therefore justify a girl lying on top of her boyfriend and pretty much dry humping him.I didnt date much in high school or at university, and I wasnt given much attention by men. All of that was fine by me. I am a self-proclaimed bookworm and nerd to the core, so nothing could keep me from the gorgeous university libraries.Even if you havent tried to give them extra attention, some take even simple eye contact, a small laugh at a joke, or just the fact that you are alive as an acceptance to their marriage proposal.If you say no to them once, they will ask again, or they will lie low until you notice them again. To me this was so bizarre because in the States most men get anxious even asking a girl out (kudos to those who have.Because they have freedom to select, to be selected by one of them makes the guy more of a hero, a winner, a champion. Lets go back to my single friend: Turkish men just assumed she would be up for anything because she is half.On September 15, Ismail Akkiraz, the vice chairman of the über-conservative Saadet Party, told a crowd during a speech that, due to the AKPs inadequate policies, our youth do not know how to practice ablution, and 60 go around cunup not showering after sex.HTTP /1.1 200 OK Content-Type: text/html;charsetUTF-8 NLBS erver: Server: Expires: Thu, GMT. Cache-Control: max-age0, no-cache, no-store Pragma: no-cache Date: Thu, GMT. Transfer-Encoding: chunked Connection: keep-alive Connection: Transfer-Encoding Set-Cookie: CFID 91421275; Path HttpOnly. Set-Cookie: CFTOKEN 6ef9f1a8d406be6d-2F5E8AF3-5056-BD40-F760DE071227393C; Path HttpOnly Set-Cookie: usion; Path HttpOnly.I had heard stories of getting lots of extra attention from men if you were naturally blonde or red-headed, but that seemed normal since those are very distinct foreign looks. Nonetheless, I had a rude awakening about the characteristics of typical Turkish men within the.Growing up, men believe that women are sacred prizes to firstly win, marry, bed, and thenas sexual freedom is not encouraged and many men and women from more conservative families will sleep with no one before they get marriedcheat on.To put it more simply, they constantly obsess over what they dont have. Some sort of a covetous behavior perhaps. I completely agree with him. The consequences of this conservative view of sex are direfor both men and women.