Its the move by men who ultimately fear rejection and would rather submit themselves to the Friend Zone than risk losing the fantasy. This is fundementally dishonest and a complete dick move; the pretender is trading on somebodys willingness to believe him when he insists.In fact, Dana is married. But she flirts like a pro. What can we learn from Danas flirtation? After our great museum visit, I sat down with Dana on the museum steps to find out more about her flirting techniques.Yup. There is, in fact, more than one Friend Zone. but they all feel a lot like this! Surprised? Stick with me here. The Different Friend Zones. Friend Zone v. 1: Lets Just Be Friends. This version of the Friend Zone is, frankly, born out of.As trivial as it may sound, the woman you are seeing should only be with you if and as long as she wants to, and if she doesnt, then she is not the one for you.Share your flirting tips below. xoxo Sandy. Share this! Comments.« Previous 1 2 3 View All Next » This week marks the one year anniversary of Paging Dr. NerdLove, which Im finding absolutely astounding. And I can only say thank you to everybody whos been with me so far and whos just joined me.You need to know how people get stuck in there in the first place and how. They may think that sex ruins friendships or they may be interested in somebody else. the tragic hero to recognize that women might be flirting with me. of online dating, is that some people will want to be friends first; in fact.Unfortunately, one persons glaringly obvious is another persons insanely subtle and prone to misinterpretation. In fact, you will find that some people nerds, especially are prone to picking up on indicators of interest and actually rationalizing them away because they dont believe that somebody could.However, you still have to be clear: you are communicating with this person because you are interested in this becoming something more than just platonic friendship. To do otherwise is not only dishonest but also runs the risk of causing them to misinterpret your interest.Not to go hang out some time. Not to grab dinner, if yknow, you dont have any plans. Not get coffee some time or study together. You need to actually use the word date anything less and your outing is subject to interpretation; you may.Posted by Sandy Weiner in dating after divorce, single women over 40 0. My friend, whom we ll call Dana, flirts with everyone. It s not at all about sex.