There ARE good men out there. There are relationship-oriented men out there. And often the difference between the players and the committers is YOU. The right woman at the right time can make a man want to stop playing.So we say nothing. And hope that you dont get too attached. Why dont we go to Adultfriendfinder for easy, no-strings-attached sex? Because its kind of skeezy. Because theres no challenge and no human connection.He wants nothing to do with you. Then there are the totally speculative what he really wants sex tips like this real tip from a real guy in Cosmopolitan : We need you to get a little rough and grab on to it like youre.As with orgasms and suntans, fake isnt sexy. CLICK TO THE NEXT PAGE.This is in accordance with the way we act on a date as well. Just because we think youre attractive and we show you a good time doesnt mean were actually INTERESTED. It just means were being in the moment.And so we go back to Lauras insightful question what does it all MEAN? Well, I can only speak for myself here by pretending to be a guy dating online (I know, its a reach.Several guys put in their profile that they are looking for friends only, one guy even put that hes too busy for a relationship right now. Is this a case of semantics? Are these guys really just wanting to take it slow and be friends.